Theprocessofperceivingothersisrarelytranslated(toourselvesorothers)intocold,objectiveterms．"Shewas5feet8inchestall,hadfairhair,andworeacoloredskirt．"Moreoften,wetrytogetinsidetheotherpersontopinpointhisorherattitudes,emotions,motivations,abilities,ideas,andcharacters．Furthermore,wesometimesbehaveasifwecanaccomplishthisdifficultjobveryquickly--perhapswithatwo-secondglance． Wetrytoobtaininformationaboutothersinmanyways．Bergersuggestsseveralmethodsforreducinguncertaintiesaboutothers;whoareknowntoyousoyoucancomparetheobservedperson'sbehaviorwiththeknownothers'behavior,observingapersoninasituationwheresocialbehaviorisrelativelyunrestrainedorwhereawidevarietyofbehavioralresponsesarecalledfor,deliberatelystructuringthephysicalorsocialenvironmentsoastoobservetheperson'sresponsestospecificstimuli,askingpeoplewhohavehadorhavefrequentcontactwiththepersonabouthimorher,andusingvariousstrategiesinface-to-faceinteractiontouncoverinformationaboutanotherperson--question,self-disclosures,andsoon． Gettingtoknowsomeoneisanever-endingtask,largelybecausepeopleareconstantly changingandthemethodsweusetoobtaininformationareoftenimprecise．Youmayhaveknownsomeonefortenyearsandstillknowverylittleabouthim．Ifweaccepttheideathatwewon'teverfullyknowanotherperson,itenablesustodealmoreeasilywiththosethingsthatgetinthewayofaccurateknowledgesuchassecretsanddeceptions．Itwillalsokeepusfrombeingtoosurprisedorshockedbyseeminglyinconsistentbehavior．Ironically,thosethingsthatkeepusfromknowinganotherpersontoowell(e．g．secretsanddeceptions)maybejustasimportanttothedevelopmentofasatisfyingrelationshipasthosethingsthatenableustoobtainaccurateknowledgeaboutaperson(e．g．disclosuresandtruthfulstatement)． ?Wemayhaveknownsomeonefortenyearsandstillknowverylittleabouthimbecause__________．
A.we don't accept the idea that we might never fully know another person
B.we often get information in a casual and inexact way
C.we pay more attention to other people's motivations and emotions
D.we often have face-to-face conversation with him
正确答案是B